Longer Lasting Sex & Ejaculation Control

Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual problem and affects one-third of all men around the world. It is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation.

When it comes to longer lasting sex, men are natural sprinters; we start off with a bang (pardon the pun) and quickly fizzle out in the end. Granted, most guys want to last longer and do their best to stretch out their performance in bed as long as possible to please themselves and their loved ones - but many men simply cannot last long enough to satisfy women's needs. Early, rapid, and premature ejaculation (PE) are common descriptions of ‘unwanted male ejaculation’ (from a climax control and timing perspective) with both partners wanting to enjoy the benefits of increased climax control and longer lasting shared sexual pleasure.

Men experiencing rapid climax, premature climax and premature ejaculation are by no means selfish; it is a reality, but it can often be improved and controlled. Solutions include: time-proven products, techniques, tricks, methods and sexual positions to help men last longer during intercourse and prolong the shared sexual experience.

First let us look at why men experience premature ejaculation.

How Ejaculation Works

Ejaculatory Reflex

Men naturally climax faster than women do; it is nature's way of ensuring the survival of the species. Ejaculation occurs when the muscles on the floor of a man's pelvis constrict, releasing the sperm. Studies show that these muscles tighten earlier in men who experience premature ejaculation.

An ‘original theory’ held that some men had more sensitive skin on the penis, hence giving them a more intense sexual sensation during intercourse and a tendency to climax faster. A lot of men, on the other hand, are capable of going the distance. The fact that some men are fully capable of marathon sex, coupled with advances in science and clinical studies that prove certain serotonin-active compounds can delay male ejaculation, now leads sexual medicine experts to believe the best approach for men to “last longer” is a combination of a better functioning serotonin system and concentration.

Serotonin Deficiency

In men who suffer from premature ejaculation, the neurotransmitter serotonin (5-HT) appears to be less active between the nerves in the section of the brain that controls ejaculation. Among other things, serotonin is linked to sexual activity and appetite. It is a natural body substance that transfers a signal from one neuron to another. Due to the low activity of serotonin (5-HT), this signal transfer does not occur properly in men with premature ejaculation (PE) and they have greater difficulty with climax control.

Preventing Premature Climax

Timing & Awareness

Sexual health experts agree that timing and reading the body's signals are good ways to achieve longer lasting sex. Men have a tendency to let their instincts turn them into carnal zombies during sex, going from point A to Z without transition or thinking. Knowing when ejaculation is about to occur is vital to longer lasting sex. The old saying "think about something else" is a fallacy. Once you miss that peak, the game is over.

Men should not try to think about baseball, Janet Reno, or other unrelated things during sex; they should do the exact opposite by concentrating on every single feeling and signal the body is sending out during intercourse. Each man should recognize the feeling right before ejaculation. Once the feeling is identified, some tricks, methods and techniques are available to help.

More Methods

Squeeze Method

Some men only need to keep the aforementioned fact in mind, while others require special techniques. The squeeze method involves stopping stimulation and gently squeezing the base of the penis for about thirty seconds right before climax. It is a nice way of getting oneself accustomed to the feeling of ejaculation while stopping the orgasm right in its tracks. While often effective, it requires a temporary interruption in intercourse.

Stop & Start Technique

Stop and start resembles the squeeze method, except there is no squeezing involved. The subject simply stops stimulation before the climax. After about thirty seconds, the man resumes stimulation. Proper breathing is essential during this or any other ejaculatory control technique. This method takes practice and time to master, and also requires temporary interruptions of intercourse.

Oral Products Used for Climax Control – Dietary Supplements and Prescription Drugs (capsules and tablets)

Certain serotonin-active products can increase ejaculatory control in men. Deferol™ Climax Control Supplement, and the prescription drugs Anafranil®, Paxil®, Prozac®, Zoloft®, etc., are either capsules or tablets that help men relax and master their timing via the serotonin system. The latter four are prescription-only antidepressants and were not originally designed to control ejaculation, even though they "can" delay ejaculation. In the United States, no prescription drug has been FDA approved to “treat premature ejaculation (PE)”.

The FDA does not recommend using Anafranil®, Paxil®, Prozac® or Zoloft® on an "off-label basis" to increase ejaculatory control because that particular result is actually a side effect of their intended purpose for treating clinical depression and/or anxiety disorders. Also, a major drawback to the use of SSRI prescription antidepressants with “long half-lives” (the time they stay in the body) is that they decrease libido in approximately 40% of men – clearly an unwanted effect.

Unlike prescription SSRI antidepressants, Deferol™ is an all-natural climax control supplement formulated by a pharmaceutical scientist and sexual health researcher to specifically increase male ejaculatory control. It works ‘partly’ on the same neurotransmitter system as the prescription drugs (serotonin), but in a natural, scientifically proven and precise way without decreasing men's libido. The pharmacist inventor of Deferol™ is also the inventor for multiple patents issued to naturally increase serotonin levels via precursor technologies (including 5-HTP) that regulate and optimize serotonin (5-HT) activity.

Since 2001, Deferol capsules remain the most appealing product for men who would like to last longer during intercourse. In a clinical study involving an analysis of the subgroup of men with self-reported intercourse times of less than 15 minutes, one Deferol™ capsule taken one hour prior to sexual activity showed an average 40% increase in vaginal intercourse time.

David M. Ferguson, Ph.D., MD, a prominent sexual medicine researcher, stated: "There is strong scientific evidence in the medical literature supporting the Deferol ingredient formulation which, by design, utilizes the same proven pathway that prescription Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRI antidepressants) and the SSRI dapoxetine [available only in Finland and Sweden], use as part of its activity. In contrast to the prescription drugs and dapoxetine which only affect serotonin reuptake, Deferol’s natural ingredients address the three (3) known neurotransmitters that modulate ejaculatory control by: increasing brain serotonin, reducing the ‘trigger effect’ of dopamine on ejaculation, and also delivering a natural anti-anxiety compound that targets a benzodiazepine receptor. This unique ‘designed synergy’ enables significant improvement of ejaculatory control and helps to reduce a man's anxiety, which often contributes to premature ejaculation.”

Deferol™ capsules are taken 1 to 2 hours before anticipated intercourse and it’s available without a prescription, which is always a plus since most men are embarrassed to confide this problem with their doctors, and especially with their sexual partners. For more information, visit www.Deferol.com.

Topically Applied Male Genital Desensitizers - Creams, Gels, Sprays and Climax Control Condoms

Topically applied desensitizing creams, gels, sprays and climax control condoms contain ‘local anesthetics’ such as benzocaine or lidocaine. Yes, the same stuff your dentist uses to numb your mouth, and you know what that feels like. Penis desensitizers are intended to deaden or numb a man's penile sensation during intercourse which may increase ejaculatory control. While these desensitizing products can allow some men to maintain an erection longer, they often wind up reducing sexual pleasure for both partners. The desensitizer products are applied before intercourse and have a "numbing effect" on the penis, and with contact, have a similar effect on women’s genitals. Since desensitizers act by deadening penile sensation and often reduce pleasure in the man's partner, desensitizers are not generally recommended by sex therapists. Climax control condoms are manufactured with the numbing agent inside the condom with the intent of reducing the likelihood of partner contact, however the Durex® brand (global leader in condom sales) Performax literature states: “virtually no loss of sensation for the partner.” Other concerns limiting the popularity of topically applied male genital desensitizers are the manufacturer’s warnings which include: “If swallowed, get medical help or contact a Poison Control Center right away.”, “Not for oral consumption.” and “Wash off after intercourse.”

Finishing the Race with Pride and Satisfaction

Let's face it; men were not designed to outlast women in bed, so we need all the help we can get. Today's society views sex as a social act between two individuals, and most of us want longer lasting sex. It's no longer a matter of surrendering to our primal instincts; our partners expect an element of effort and sharing, so cheating a little is understandable. Using techniques and the sexual health supplement Deferol, is as natural as the desire to last longer in bed and prolong shared sexual pleasure.

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• Role of Serotonin in Ejaculation (Google)
• Gene Responsible for Premature Ejaculation
• Genetic Link Found Between Premature Ejaculation and Being Good At Video Games
• Premature Ejaculation - From Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia
• Mechanism of Ejaculation - From Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia